lets talk about our parents.... well in this case, MY parents...
what happens if they fight? sometimes i really wonder... y am i "blessed" with such a family...? not tat i'm not being appreciative or wad... to see other family that i've known, i din know tat wad my parent's are facing is what i din tot it wuld be... k... i'm being negative here.... haisss.... i get fed-up to be honest... i mean... 1st of all... my mom is the type who likes to talk about the past.... its like, when the problem they are quarelling about is about this particular sth, after "blabbering" tat particular sth, she wuld like purposely elaborate on irrelevant things tat have no link at all n hence, make my dad angry... i get pissed ah..WHY? cos y cant she jus talk bout the things they're quarelling about? the fight was 'suppose' to be a small one, in the end, with my mom's character, the fight soon grew into a big one.... haisss..... she's so hot-tempered... and as for my dad, i'm jus as speechless when it comes to my dad... but i thank god tat his patience are able to control him despite the "irrelevant-attacks"... why cant i jus have parents that are jus as united when problems are faced?
when it comes to a money problem, y cant they jus talk things out n settle whatever debts they have in peace.. not like, u borrowed the money so u pay for it...
HELLO?!
husband n wife dun push money problems to each other.. n then all they can do is to blame... WTF kan? from the day i was born, i've always knew tat my family is not on a very stable condition... [as in frequent fights etc] n its all b'cos of wad?
MONEY... k.... my family's not on financial crisis... but i feel we're kinda struggling with the way my parents are dealing with the money... jus plain bad..
ok... whatever happens is for a reason ryte?
so i guess whatever the reason is.... i guess its helping my future.. with what future?
to be a good dad... n
to be a good husband...
k... it sounds abit off track... but its true isnt it?
"semua perkara yang berlaku sentiasa ada hikmahnya"
i have no idea how to translate it in english...
thats the problem with me... i can translate english into malay BUT NEVER malay into english... and the ultimate weird thing is tat my english is way better than my malay.... my malay koyak to the max.. i'm dead serious..
n so... my ultimate goal of wad i wish to say on my blog is there.... everything happens for a reason n it might jus come in handy when u'r the one facing such problems... dun mean to look down on my family... but its jus the way its meant to be... ppl dun change within a day or a week for that matter.... its learning from others that's the ultimate goal u need to achieve in life... true isnt it?
n so... me being at sucha a young age (18 is young ok!), it leaves me space n time for me to really think it thru... n therefore, that's how i intend to PREPARE myself to be a good...
1. boyfriend.
2. husband.
2. dad.
(dun emo khai! take it easy.. )
kuang3... i dun really have anything to say now.... sorry bout today's entry... today wasnt supoz to be this entry...
so, the entry tat's supoz to be today's, i shall postpone it to prolly tmr...
[ i used too many 'entry'...kua3]
so long i understand it, it shall be fine... :)
till then...
keep taggin'..
~kHai.inC~
k... it sounds abit off track... but its true isnt it?
"semua perkara yang berlaku sentiasa ada hikmahnya"
i have no idea how to translate it in english...
thats the problem with me... i can translate english into malay BUT NEVER malay into english... and the ultimate weird thing is tat my english is way better than my malay.... my malay koyak to the max.. i'm dead serious..
n so... my ultimate goal of wad i wish to say on my blog is there.... everything happens for a reason n it might jus come in handy when u'r the one facing such problems... dun mean to look down on my family... but its jus the way its meant to be... ppl dun change within a day or a week for that matter.... its learning from others that's the ultimate goal u need to achieve in life... true isnt it?
n so... me being at sucha a young age (18 is young ok!), it leaves me space n time for me to really think it thru... n therefore, that's how i intend to PREPARE myself to be a good...
1. boyfriend.
2. husband.
2. dad.
(dun emo khai! take it easy.. )
kuang3... i dun really have anything to say now.... sorry bout today's entry... today wasnt supoz to be this entry...
so, the entry tat's supoz to be today's, i shall postpone it to prolly tmr...
[ i used too many 'entry'...kua3]
so long i understand it, it shall be fine... :)
till then...
keep taggin'..
~kHai.inC~